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My mother called just now because she had a nightmare in which I was sick and that when she came to see me, I was crying and whimpering in pain because it was so bad. She wanted reassurance I was okay, so I gave it.

I decided to not tell her that I have been feeling inexplicably very cold and physically ill as of late.


What I mean when I say “I can’t do that”- Anxiety Version:

  • I am unable to do that
  • I am too stressed out to do that
  • I cannot face the humiliation of attempting to do that
  • My body will physically not allow me to do that
  • I am on the verge of a panic attack
  • I cannot do that

What people hear:

  • I am unwilling to do that
  • I am just shy
  • I am overreacting
  • I am lazy
  • I need to get more experience in social situation to help my anxiety
  • I need a push
  • I don’t want to do that

Inspired by X

(via graceful-defiance)

Daily reminder


  1. Drink more water.
  2. Eat less sugar.
  3. Find the nearest superhero base of operations and burn it to the ground.
  4. Be nice to animals.

(via graceful-defiance)


Surprisingly, perfectionists are often procrastinators, as they can tend to think “I don’t have the right skills or resources to do this perfectly now, so I won’t do it at all.”

this is an important thing to remember.

(Source: myeyesarehazel, via playinhooky)






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